Sunday night, the dishwasher's running. Both of you did chores today. On paper, it's even.
But somewhere in the last week, one of you also remembered the dentist appointment for next Thursday, noticed the kid's sneakers don't fit anymore, texted the sitter about the schedule change, and made a mental note to reorder the dish tabs before they run out. The other person did the dishes tonight and folded laundry yesterday. Also even, on paper.
Therefore nobody's lying when they say "we split things pretty fairly." The tasks are split. The noticing isn't.
That's the part that doesn't show up on a chore chart, and it's also the part that quietly wears one person down until they snap at 9pm on a random Tuesday about something that has nothing to do with what actually happened that day. It was never about the dishes. It was about the fourteen other things nobody saw them carrying to get the dishes done at all.
We built TallyHome around that gap. It's a shared task list, but the part that actually matters is what it shows underneath the list: who's carrying the invisible tracking, not just who's checking boxes. Every household gets that visibility for free. If you want it to go a step further, auto-rebalance is live as a premium feature. It actively suggests who should take the next task based on the load each person is already carrying, instead of leaving that math to the two of you at 9pm.
If you've ever felt like you're doing your share and still drowning, this is usually why. Not laziness on anyone's part. A gap nobody could see.
Now you can.